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Coping tools

Weather gear

Nothing here takes longer than 15 minutes. Pick what matches the storm you're in — these pages work offline too.

  • Box breathing

    3 min

    Slow the storm down with an even four-count breath.

    1. 1Breathe in through your nose for 4 counts.
    2. 2Hold gently for 4 counts.
    3. 3Breathe out through your mouth for 4 counts.
    4. 4Hold empty for 4 counts.
    5. 5Repeat for 8 rounds, or until the sky feels lighter.
  • 5-4-3-2-1 senses

    4 min

    Come back to the room using your five senses.

    1. 1Name 5 things you can see.
    2. 2Name 4 things you can feel.
    3. 3Name 3 things you can hear.
    4. 4Name 2 things you can smell.
    5. 5Name 1 thing you can taste.
  • Temperature shift

    2 min

    Cool water resets a body that's running hot.

    1. 1Run cold water over your wrists or splash your face.
    2. 2Breathe out longer than you breathe in, 6 times.
    3. 3Name the feeling out loud: "I'm angry, and that's information."
    4. 4Decide one thing you'll do next — not now, next.
  • Urge surfing

    10 min

    Cravings crest and fall like waves. Ride one out.

    1. 1Notice where the urge sits in your body.
    2. 2Rate its strength 1–10, without judging it.
    3. 3Breathe and watch it for 10 minutes; re-rate every 2 minutes.
    4. 4Notice that it peaked and began to fall on its own.
  • One opposite action

    15 min

    Sadness pulls you inward; move gently outward.

    1. 1Pick something small sadness says no to: a shower, a walk, a text.
    2. 2Do it for 15 minutes only.
    3. 3Notice any 1% change afterwards and write it down.
  • Worry window

    12 min

    Give worry a scheduled slot instead of the whole day.

    1. 1Write every worry down as it comes, without solving it.
    2. 2Book 12 minutes later today to review the list.
    3. 3In that window, mark each worry: act, wait, or let go.
  • Feet on the floor

    2 min

    A 2-minute anchor you can use anywhere, eyes open.

    1. 1Press both feet flat into the floor.
    2. 2Name where you are, the date, and your age out loud.
    3. 3Push your palms together and release, 5 times.
  • The unsent letter

    10 min

    Say all of it, safely, to no one.

    1. 1Write to the person or situation with no filter.
    2. 2Do not send it. Read it once.
    3. 3Underline the one sentence that is most true.